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Practical advice for leaving joint home

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runningaway90 · 12/04/2024 16:39

I have another thread going in relationships about my partner but I just wanted some advice on what I should do in terms of the house we jointly own. I think my partner will try to buy me out but I figure this will take a few months to sort and in that time I would still be liable to pay my share of the mortgage I assume. Until its sorted, should I stay in the spare room while paying my split, or move out to family while paying? My worry is that he will drag his feet if I do leave as he has no incentive when he has the house to himself and paying less and I couldn't afford somewhere else while I'm paying this mortgage. But equally don't really want to live in a terrible environment for months so not sure what to do? He has been emotionally abusive in the relationship but not physical if that makes any difference.

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runningaway90 · 12/04/2024 20:16

Any advice?

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Turtletunes · 13/04/2024 19:20

Hi, I don't have any advice I'm afraid but I wonder if you might get some responses if you put this on the Divorce/Separation board rather than Relationships?

I hope you figure it out 💐

runningaway90 · 13/04/2024 19:30

Thank you I'll try that, didn't realise there was a different board for that 😄

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