DH and I are going through a rough patch, well rough ongoing months I guess. One of our issues is I’ve said I don’t trust a female friend of his and his view, whilst acknowledging my view, is that means I don’t trust him. He says that I’m effectively saying that he will reciprocate anything she might do. They’re very good friends and have been for a long time (9 or 10 years maybe, I’m not sure exactly) and he has reduced his contact with her after these conversations but is saying he’s not willing to just end the friendship. Do I mean I don’t trust him?! This sort of thing fries my brain as I’m just not good at dealing with it.