Has anyone got any advice or anything that's helped when their marriage was going through a really rocky patch?
I feel really lost at the moment and it's nothing big, just small things. We just don't seem to be making any headway and it's been over 2 weeks of arguing and not getting on.
I feel as if I'm changing and I've seen him in a different light, and his lack of recognising my feelings and telling me what he thinks instead of being understanding is getting to me. Everything I bring up is met with extreme defence and him listing the things he does do and going in a mood 'because I'm calling him shit and he does nothing', which I didn't. Any problem is met with this. Considering we've been arguing for so long, I don't feel like being intimate at all. However last night I woke up to him with fingers in my ass - I was not happy. He said I started it, I said how? When I was asleep? And that I wasn't ready for any intimacy as I feel we haven't got anywhere.
Is this my hormones? I feel different, I want more for myself. I want someone that makes an effort and that effort is more than 'I do the dishwasher and packed lunches'. He never organises anything. I'm so unhappy and it's sudden. What has happened? I realise I sound like I don't even like him right now, I'm not sure I do. I want him to go out so I can be by myself 🤷♀️