Hey,
So I seperated from my husband of 12 years a while ago now and I know there is no chance we will reconcile. Prior to separating we had an invite for us both and our kids to attend his best friend's wedding....
Since our separation his freinds have taken the time to make another invitation and send me a seperate one still asking that I attend.
I'm not sure whether to go or not....
To give it some context, this is his childhood best friend,, we met through our marraige/relationship. But naturally our families and extented families have combined and became close over the years, joint group holidays big Birthdays etc.
They are getting married at the same venue we did at our wedding and the guests who will attend plus a few extras are all the same people we had at our wedding.
I may be overthinking it... but I feel like it's just a gesture of good will but also that It would be really strange " reliving" our wedding day through somone else's eyes and having to be in the middle of all the group I was once a part of and seeing my ex husband in that setting...
What would you do? Would you go or would you politely decline ?