My son and his girlfriend have just broken up. They lived with me for 8 months and I adored her, she was a lovely little thing, we spent so much time together and now she's gone. But not just gone a few miles away, she's moved all the way to an island off Scotland and I am way down south. I am struggling with the split more than my son is. I've just seen a pic of her and her mum and I am balling because I know I'm not likely to ever see her again.
I don't deal with separation well and I don't know how to navigate my way through this.
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totallylost1 · 07/04/2024 19:53
Jellykat · 07/04/2024 22:43
Can you send her a card wishing her luck with everything or some such ? maybe say you'd like to stay in touch.. would that be ok with your DS?
totallylost1 · 11/04/2024 18:59
It's terrible. I watched the ship she was on sail out of the dock on a webcam located there and I freaking balled my eyes out for hours.. We are in contact but it's not the same as getting up in the morning and seeing her little face.
Today has been easier, I am still tremendously sad, but no tears today.
She said as she was leaving 'it's like we're breaking up' and I went 'absolutely not cause I still like you'...... I will hate this everyday...
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