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How do I get out of my relationship

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Melinda1963 · 03/04/2024 21:22

Looking for some honest advice, iv been with my children’s farther on and off for over 15 years at first I really worshiped the ground he walked on he’s always been obsessed with me but after we had the kids he took it to far not letting me go out constantly checking were I was phoning my work phone etc we have broke up a few times in the past and he will put trackers on my car to follow me out listening devices in my house etc. the house I live in currently I rent of his farther who last time I tried to break up with him served me a eviction notice and said if I wasn’t with his son I couldn’t live here, I don’t have family I can go and stay with and I carnt afford to rent privately, I really don’t want to be with him anymore I don’t love him but if I leave he and his family make my life hell, I have been to the police and they won’t do anything becouse I carnt prove the stalking etc and he’s never physically assaulted me, just mental torcher everyday. I need to get out my house and away from him and his family but getting a council house is next to impossible please can any one offer any housing advice I am currently band 2 for domestic violence on the housing and have been for two years

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Palacelife · 03/04/2024 22:14

I’m really sorry you’re trapped in this situation.
I think the best thing you can do is seek advice from a domestic abuse support service, there will be one in your area. This is controlling and intimidating behaviour and I’m very surprised the police haven’t taken it seriously.

Notamum12345577 · 03/04/2024 22:21

You can private rent and get some housing benefit if you can’t afford the rent due to low wages etc?

arethereanyleftatall · 03/04/2024 22:30

Are you aware you might be entitled to government help plus child maintenance support to help finance you living elsewhere?

Melinda1963 · 04/04/2024 07:12

Notamum12345577 · 03/04/2024 22:21

You can private rent and get some housing benefit if you can’t afford the rent due to low wages etc?

It wouldn’t even cover half of what people are asking for rent now by me it’s £900 a month for a 3 bedroom xx

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Melinda1963 · 04/04/2024 07:13

arethereanyleftatall · 03/04/2024 22:30

Are you aware you might be entitled to government help plus child maintenance support to help finance you living elsewhere?

No iv never heard of this thank you I will lion into it xx

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