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Is this emotional abuse?

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Whattodo3210 · 02/04/2024 20:45

I was recently in a relationship for four years. A lot of people told me it was a bad relationship but at that time I didn't believe it.
As years went on I just wanted it to end and leave the relationship. So as I told him that I wanted to leave he would always say he would commit suicide if I left him.
Time after time I felt like I couldn't leave because I was scared he would commit suicide.
After moving to a different area I broke it off and he asked could we be friends. I said okay but then it was too much so I had enough and blocked his number.
I received a voicemail saying that I was pathetic and threatening that something would happen if he ever saw me again.

I don't know if I'm overreacting but is this emotional abuse?

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gamerchick · 02/04/2024 20:48

Yeah. Keep the voicemail. If you get another one or he gets in touch again, go to your local police station and ask them to have a stern word with him. Usually that's all it takes to rein them in.

If you ever end up in a relationship again where they threaten suicide, remember you're not responsible for someone's mental health and it's a form of control and leave them.

ButtockUp · 02/04/2024 21:03

Yes, it's emotional blackmail and yes, keep all copies of transactions.
Sorry you're going through this.
Been there myself many years ago.
All the best.

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