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Share your loser ex-boyfriend stories

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cantbesilenced · 02/04/2024 13:53

I'll start:

-unemployed at 30 (never been employed ever)
-convicted for assaulting a woman
-deeply ashamed of and in denial about being an ephebophile and absolutely terrified of people finding out even though he has no life/job/property/friendships to even ruin
-destroyed my home by throwing wine at the wall and tearing out fixtures and rubbing kratom into every-fucking-thing i own to the point where i just threw out everything kratom-stained so i could forget about him
-emotional affairs with women abroad during entire relationship
-lost interest in me as soon as i was no longer a teenage girl and kept me around for sex
-humiliated me online so often that i couldn't keep a social media anywhere
-threatened to commit s***, wreck my house, cut up my designer stuff while i was abroad if i didn't permit entrance to my home from a random tinder floozy who later photographed the outside of my house and put it on her social media as some kind of pathetic threat
-claims i raped him
-claims his ex who he was daily contact with raped him
-extreme victim complex
-sexted with underage girls
-claimed he had the legal right to squat in my house and threatened legal action against me if i didnt let him bring home tinder dates
-posted ramblings and stolen opinions about subjects he doesn't understand almost every day
-allowed me to do all housework and work full time while he played videogames and jerked off to loli

I met the man of my dreams a little while after who not only worshipped me but was the opposite of and superior to him in every way (employed, kind, competent, extremely tall and unbelievably beautiful) and I cut contact. He responded by:

-trying to start conflict with him on Facebook about philosophy, revealing his own ineptitude and misunderstanding of the subject
-sending his friends to 'warn' him about me being crazy to the point where i was so embarrassed to ever have dated such a bum that i just denied the whole thing and told him we were never in a relationship and he was just some crazed lunatic
-needless to say he blocked his freak friends and asked them to leave us alone

Glad he's making someone else's life a living Hell and not mine.

OP posts:
itsgoingtobeabumpyride · 02/04/2024 14:07

Crikey, that's going to be hard to beat!
I've nothing to add but I'm glad you're happy now.

Pinkbonbon · 02/04/2024 14:25

I think I'd describe him more as a 'psyco' than a loser tbh. You've had a lucky escape!

As grim as it is to think of guys liking younger girls though... Most people have the capacity to find anyone who has been through puberty attractive (Just look at the netflix obsession with High school dramas).

So I'd bet... he maybe likes them even younger, and that's what he was worried about people finding out.

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