The right thing ?

[Wantshappy]

So I posted on here a few days ago n iv thought hard n iv came to the conclusion as much as I love my other half of 10 years ( we don't live together) we're just different people !! There's things he says n does I don't think is Right as he thinks it's funny !! He's hurt me bad over the years n I now have anxiety and he's like a time bomb waiting to go off n it puts me on edge !! I know he can't change n it's my problem not his .I'm so chilled out n placid!! Compared to him we're chalk n cheese !! I'm at that point off being 45 I don't want to walk on egg shells I'm happy on my own I think !! I'm.scared to end it as He won't let go easy ..but 10 years I'm drained 😪

It's a point where I love him but iv fell out off love

Are you scared of his reaction if you try to end the relationship?

Yes I am

Good thing you don’t live with him. Once you tell him go no contact and block him. He sounds volatile

If he wasn't such a moody person I could try but I'm so tired n just lost

Things won't get any better, thank goodness you don't live with him.

Do you have anyone in real life that you could talk to, anyone who could stay with you if you're worried?

I would change the locks and get some cameras up for peace of mind, but you can't stay in this relationship out of fear.