How to break to bond and move on?

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I have been in tbh an absolute dogshit relationship for 14 years.

I have been cheated on, lied to, humiliated and abused but i still love him. I have tried probably close to 40 times to move on from him, get my mind healthy and back on track but all i want in this life is for him to value and love me.

How can i become my own person again? I love him more than words, i have done nearly half my life but he just doesnt love me back.

Do something just for you.

For example book a (singles or solo type) holiday and go. Just give him a weeks notice that you’re off. Feel the power as you watch him hear the news.

By taking a breathing space I think you might find a new you. An independent soul who can function without him.

The holiday doesn’t have to be abroad; it could be a walking week, learning to paint, yoga and meditation. Dya get my drift?

You’re in a rut! Break out!