So iv been in a relationship for 10 years and we don't live together..we have been through a lot ( iv caught him online cheating 4 times but I forgave him ( this was 3 years ago ) but slowly iv found him annoying me through no fault of his own it's just how he is !! Shall I say I'm getting the ick !! Iv no interest in sex with him n when he touchs me it annoys me !! He used to smoke weed but iv found out he's a nicer person smoking cannabis than not !! He seems to make remarks about me he thinks is funny like I'm lazy n look old not all the time plus iv started to watch his relationships with work mates n stuff n nobody gets along with him but I can see why !! We spend the weekends together but I'm glad when he goes home as I feel I'm on edge n can't be me !! We both have our own homes but I know he wants to live together but I'm happier at home with my 17year daughter n my dog..