I'm seriously unhappy with my husband of 30 years. We have nothing in common anymore apart from our 2 dogs, he drinks heavily, smokes moderately and rarely showers (although he does have a good wash every day so is clean). I've asked him to cut down his drinking and he says he will, but nothing changes. I also suspect he has a lot of personal debt that he's not telling me about. Our sex life is non existent.
He's still working full time, from home, and I'm looking for work after being made redundant a year ago, at 60 finding employment is hard. We've no savings to speak of.
I'm on anti-depressants for stress and anxiety and I'm not sure how much longer I can cope with this life. Ideally I want to leave with the dogs, but we have nowhere to go and not a lot of money.
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Leaveorstay60 · 29/03/2024 11:09
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