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Removed from hinge dating

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user6863356 · 27/03/2024 16:58

Been talking to a guy/dating for 3 weeks, speak daily through text/phone calls etc

Noticed today he has unmatched with my on the dating platform we met on and he's still on there as a active member

Is that weird to remove me when we're still talking/dating?

Not sure what to think

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NotQuiteNorma · 27/03/2024 17:03

If you speak and text daily why aren't you asking him?

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user6863356 · 27/03/2024 17:05

I will ask him but I just think it's a but strange thing to do

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SamW98 · 27/03/2024 17:06

Maybe he doesn’t want you to see when he’s active on the app?

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user6863356 · 27/03/2024 17:08

Well once you match with someone you can't see when there active at all it's only if you are not matched then you can see if they are active or not

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writergirl007 · 29/03/2024 09:36

He doesn’t want you to see when he adds more photos/revamps his profile for more interest?

Ask him though?

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Givemegoldensun · 29/03/2024 09:50

In my opinion if you haven’t met you aren’t dating. Also, and I’m sorry if this sounds harsh, but if he has unmatched you then he isn’t interested. I’m not meaning to upset you but there are a lot of time wasters online. You need to meet early on and not get attached until you are both committed to coming off OLD and being exclusive.

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YesThatsATurdOnTheRug · 29/03/2024 09:53

Weird that he would make the effort to unmatch you. Ask him, but also be wary.

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samestyle · 29/03/2024 10:16

It's weird, I've not experienced that, unmatching normally means not interested trying to give you a big hint, doesn't want to see you again, but if he's still initiating talking/seeing you, thats sneaky, or at least he thinks he but a bit dim as you can see him on there anyway.

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SamW98 · 29/03/2024 10:24

Givemegoldensun · 29/03/2024 09:50

In my opinion if you haven’t met you aren’t dating. Also, and I’m sorry if this sounds harsh, but if he has unmatched you then he isn’t interested. I’m not meaning to upset you but there are a lot of time wasters online. You need to meet early on and not get attached until you are both committed to coming off OLD and being exclusive.

Absolutely this. Chatting isn’t dating and it’s not real until you meet in real life.

Unless there’s a really good reason, anyone who can’t/wont meet after 2 weeks absolute max isn’t worth investing any more time in.

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Surfapparel · 29/03/2024 10:37

How do you know he is still on there if he unmatched you? On Hinge, it would never show you his profile again.

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