Hi. We've been together nearly 30 years, married for 15. For the last few years since the kids have been older me & DH seem to have drifted apart as a couple. we have nothing in common anymore. We're friends & rarely argue or bicker but recently it's like living with a housemate rather than a partner. On an evening he sits in one room watching TV I sit in another watching TV. He doesn't have any real interests other than watching TV. There's no intimacy & hasn't been for quite a while. He just doesn't seemed bothered where as I miss it. He's been sleeping in the spare room for over a year now. I initially suggested it at a time when he was snoring really bad & I was Menopausal & shattered by not sleeping. However, he's stayed there & shows no sign of returning to our shared room. I'm starting to get bored with our relationship as there's just nothing there anymore. I have tried talking to him telling him how I feel & that things need to change so we're back to being husband & wife again but he doesn't seem to do anything to make things better. When I ask if he's happy he says he is but I'm not. how do we get back on track?