Just met up with my uncle for the first time in ... well... years. And my cousin - she's 15 and I saw her last when she was a toddler. This is for various reasons but mostly due to a long running feud between my mum and her MIL and a lot of deep-seated family negativity and control.
It's really odd. I think I've found a kindred spirit... an ally in my family that I didn't really know about before. I learnt a lot about family history, different perspectives and biases on certain key events in our lives. I'm not really sure how I feel about it, but I do feel a corner has been turned in acceptance/understanding of what makes me myself.
I'm not making sense I know. But just wanted to tell someone somewhere.
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
Nature vs. Nurture
GeorginaAdventCalendar · 28/12/2004 17:10
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.