Husband and I have separated.. am I being selfish

[wantingthebest]

My Husband and I have recently separated. We are currently on goods terms and are working out how things will look moving forward. He is hoping we can work on our issues, but honestly I am just done. For 17 years I have hoped he would change his ways and he never has. Now he is finally listening and doing all he can but I feel like its too little, too late. We have 4 kids ranging from 12-3. I just feel so guilty that I am breaking up our family and my 3 year old twins will never know what its like to have mum and dad together. Any advice please 😢

once they realise the tears and nice behaviour are not going to work they generally have another woman within weeks. They are so predictable

@wantingthebest , no one answering your question knows you and your husband please remember that. Are you done, has your love left, is what he’s done unrecoverable from? Do you still love him?
My husband was very immature, it took me to really lose my shit for him to take a look at himself. We stayed together, I’m not perfect and he’s not perfect, I love him; I always have.
Good luck. X