I've posted a few times recently, about problems i've been having with my sister. I've decided to walk away from the relationship entirely and i have had no conact with her for some weeks now. Prior to the breakdown i had invited her to my daughters baby shower, purely out of niceness, my daughther doesn't really know her aunt, her aunt has never made an effort with any of my children but she agreed to allow me to invite her.
Since the invite, the relationship between myself and my sister has broken down, to the point where i have had no choice but to block her on every medium. she was told she was not welcome to the baby shower, she said she had a gift and was advised to post it to my house and i would ensure daughter got it.
she has messaged both my daughters now, trying to find out when and where the baby shower is, telling them she had been invited and would still like to attend. (she will only know me there, she does not know one other single person) and can she bring a friend with her. Both my daughters have chosen to not reply.
she has now messaged my son-in-law. someone she has never ever met, again trying to find out where the baby shower is, stating she has a gift but she is not comfortable leaving it at my house, trying to get my son-in-law on her side by bad mouthing me.
I suspect she has gone this because she knows he will tell me, and that i will then message her and then she will have got the contact from me she clearly desperatly wants and needs, even if its an arguement.. i guess any contact for her is good contact.
as she is not contacting me directly, i cant report her to the police.. or can i? and what do i do if she does find out where and when the baby shower is, and turns up?
just to add, this is the woman who wanted to go to someones funeral for no other reason but to witness me upset so that she could then later have a go at me for my behaviour at said funeral. (this was my ex-husbands funeral, father of my kids, and we were so close i actually helped with his end of life care).