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Abusive ex emailed me

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Bigmisstake · 18/03/2024 20:35

My abusive ex has emailed me saying “I can’t do this anymore I’m comovinf over later to speak”
we haven’t spoke in weeks and I replied with the link to the government page with court suggesting to go there to get child custody and not hurt me but I can’t rest at all. Just want a handhold.

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ChanelNo19EDT · 18/03/2024 20:36

Can you ring the police now if you're scared. You do not have to let him in.

pleasecallmeback · 18/03/2024 20:38

If he turns up don’t let him in. Is there anyone who can come round for moral support?

ZekeZeke · 18/03/2024 20:40

Call the police

MinervatheGreat · 18/03/2024 20:45

Your home is your castle.
Pull up the drawbridge and talk to him if you must, thru an upstairs open window. You can soon pull it closed if he kicks off.

Don’t give the neighbourhood a sideshow of entertainment. Don’t shout. Keep your voice low and keep your dignity.
If he really kicks off, call the police.
I hope it works out for you.

Bigmisstake · 18/03/2024 21:21

Thank you all I’m certain he won’t come he’s just trying to get me anxious (it worked) just a way to make me feel uncomfortable

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Chicheguevara · 18/03/2024 21:31

I hope that you are OK. I am sure that you have your doors locked and bolted, checked all your windows etc., and are keeping your phone with you the entire time and it is fully charged.
If he’s an abusive type, no second chances, call the police if he turns up.
I don’t suppose you have a nice dog who barks at the slightest squeak outside? Just to give you the heads up.
I hope that you are right and he’s emailing you just to give you a rattle and cause you anxiety. Stay in touch with your friends and don’t open the door and don’t engage with him if he shows.

Indifferentchickenwings · 18/03/2024 21:55

Use your voice
call the police and also Maybe time to block him ?

he can get what he needs done through Soliciter

Bigmisstake · 18/03/2024 21:59

Indifferentchickenwings · 18/03/2024 21:55

Use your voice
call the police and also Maybe time to block him ?

he can get what he needs done through Soliciter

I have since I just didn’t know he had my email he tried my TikTok too I follow no one and have no followers just watch make up videos on it so I don’t know how as it’s linked my dads phone 😂 really freaked me out he’s not physical but he stalked me for a year on no caller id threatening to rape me in front out kids my flat is red flagged and I have emailed to the police officer investigating that my email he sent me. Thank you all

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