Hey… so basically me and my husband been together 5 years. He is down on our council tenancy agreement. I don’t want to be with him anymore but he refuses to leave. Basically we both have 2 children from previous relationships and one together, he will do anything for his older 2 kids (16&12) if I ask him to pick our 4 year old up for hour cause I’m at work it’s a problem. We have his kids one night in week and every other weekend. He is self employed and doesn’t always have work or sometimes chooses not to. He does nothing in the house whilst I’m at work. Can’t remember the last time he said anything nice to me, just constantly puts me down. He is so jealous of me it’s weird. I am getting a new car from work and he is seriously jealous, if i see or speak to my family “they are all I care about” he wakes up sometimes and just decides he doesn’t want to talk then expects me to just be ok when he wants to be and I am sick of it now. I avoid going on nights out cause I just get abuse and get told stay out it’s better when ya not here and nobody want you here. I can’t do it anymore but I’m stuck as he will not leave. What can I do, it’s so depressing now. Not fair on my kids to live in a house with atmosphere. I can never afford to do nothing with my kids as can’t afford to pay for 7 of us