For the last six months this guy has tried to love bomb the hell out of me , I was flattered first that he seemed to know everything about my life and take that much of an intrigue in me. But he was married and although nothing ever happened it felt as if he was pushing the boundaries with how much time we spent talking. Fast forward few months his wife has asked for a divorce, he comes onto me strong and hard in the first week he’s trying to convince me we’re meant to be and is going around telling everyone mutual we know we are together. I’ve also noticed when I’ve tried telling him I want to slow down, I’m moving away it will get quickly and strongly over ridden or I’ll just be told I am scared of how much we like each other. I have noticed if we’re shopping together he will try and control all my choices of what to get, i will be firm and say no I don’t want those things x y and z but he will persist, it’s micro management of everything and when I say no he shows this other side of him where he just goes silent or really sarcastic with me or put downs. He has researched every area of my life to try and “help” me with struggles I am going through at the moment particularly financial. I felt yesterday almost he was getting a kick out of telling me I couldn’t afford the cheapest items and I was so skint he kept saying “I feel so bad for you”- nb. I earn much more in my job than him I’m just in an inbetween stage atm with jobs. I just get a seriously bad gut feeling about it all. Then my mind keeps flipping and telling me I’m over reacting and he’s just going out of his way to help me out with my life and really cares about me and he’s just coming across the wrong way without realising it.