Any advice welcome. I’m currently 6 months pregnant and already have a 5 five year old with my husband. Things have been really up and down from my perspective I am so fed up with my husband's lack of shared responsibilities. The last few instances thst have blown up have resulted in me asking for help for something, multiple times and he continues to either sit on his phone or watch tv, to which I eventually erupt and admittidly, lose the plot infront of our child. I am by no means proud of this and have become really upset by how I am reacting for my child to see, but I am at the end of my tether with him and his selfish ways of needing to be begged, repeatedly asked to do things we both have responsibilities for. Tonight for example I was trying to sort homework, dinner and uniform
etc for tomorrow. Asked dh to run bath 3 times despite saying an hour previously it was Bath night and he knows bath is his thing and when it happens. Bath was ran after 3 asks, and 30mins later I asked why was the child not in bath. He was watching football and
said bath would be done after football, bear in mind this 7:45pm at night, waiting for him for a 5 year old child. Am I being unreasonable to be annoyed? This is just one example, generally he sits on his phone most nights and never dreams of helping for bed etc. Im literally at breaking point now and I dont like the person I am when I react. He doesnt ever see any issues and says its me reacting that stops him doing it. Its the same pattern and I cant get through to him at all, which makes me react how I do.