How to fix my marriage

[NoisyReader]

Married 6 years and I’m worried we are failing. I adore my husband but I don’t think he feels that way about me. He has recently taken on a lot of household and childcare duties in addition to his job to support my studying, something which I’m very grateful for and trying to recognise (maybe not loudly enough but I’m working on it)
of late I feel he is totally disinterested in me, not physically affectionate and happy to do his own thing. I have spoken about how I feel and he’s told me I need to work on myself before we can work on our relationship, verbally he tells me he is still interested but I am still worried.
how do I fix things?

You sound very self absorbed. He's probably knackered.

^ I feel like that is quite harsh based on the little information you gave.

Are you trying to be physically affectionate with him? Is he tired from taking on extra tasks? Is he going through his own things at work?

It's good that he says he's still interested. What does he say you need to work on?

We need a bit more op

What???? Such a mean uncalled for comment.

He's probably tired. You need to help out with the housework 😀

(This almost feels like a reverse lol)