Sorry first ,my grammar is bad I didn’t attend school much due to bullying
Advice needed
my parents don’t respect me , or my boundaries
im very overweight at the beginning of the year I decided for the first time I’m going to put myself first and shed the weight
the first week was fine i stuck to my diet and lost 10 pounds the second week
I found out my parents were coming to visit the family , as soon as I know they are visiting, I spiral for months at a time before and after
I try and set boundaries and say they can’t come, but I always give in
the one time I refused because I was at work , I didn’t hear the end of it
“how could you not see me , I'm your mum”
my mum puts on the crocodile tears and I had by brother ringing up asking the same
this time I really thought I could be strong I told them I’m doing something, mum said that’s okay this was a few weeks back
then the beginning of this week
mum rings saying they will be coming to me in Friday
of course I have given in again ,and I’m letting them visit .
I think I might be suffering with Stockholm syndrome