Husband of 13 years - pushed me into promotion - no intention / desire of his own to move upwards...
I now have a big commute daily - which to be honest wiped out my pay rise, but a good role that I enjoy. We are both full time, but he does shifts which means I'm often alone with the kids at the weekend. This is fine with me - and things seem to go smoother when I'm on my own.
He's always arguing about money - drives me insane! Tonight he announced that he now has a CCJ against his name and that this is my fault?? Somehow he interprets the rise of cost of living as directly down to me?
When I asked him for me more info he told me that it came through a couple of months ago, but he didn't tell me! He actually paid a company online (£15) to send a letter to his old contract mobile provider - rather than just speaking to them to end his contract - subsequently this has rolled on and on and now a bloody CCJ!
I refused to get involved as all he had to make was a simple call!
So, now he has received numerous letters / warnings and has just ignored them in the hope they would go away- only a small amount was outstanding! 🙈 He would go wild if I had done this??
I am so drained by him - despite being at work ten hours today - tonight I sat upstairs alone when I came in - as i didn't feel welcome.
He doesn't seem to care if the children overhear him - just as long as he gets his point across.
I'm feeling so lost right now. Who is this man???