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Should I chase this?

12 replies

SpringSprungToday · 05/03/2024 20:57

In brief, been messaging a man, he initiated, got very flirty, we were texting most days, not heard from him in nearly a week. Very into him! I was last to text but it wasn't really anything that needed a reply if that makes sense. Don't know whether to send another and chase or if I might look desperate?
Or do I even care or have anything to lose? Suppose if he ignores this one at least I'd know?

OP posts:
Roryhon · 05/03/2024 20:59

No. Have you even met him yet? And you’re already unsure about his behaviour..

Moonlightandroses44 · 05/03/2024 20:59

Nope. If he was interested he’d text you. And arrange to meet up.

Catpuke · 05/03/2024 21:00

Worth a text to see if he responds. Nothing to lose.

determinedtomakethiswork · 05/03/2024 21:00

No way. He didn't reply to your last message. That tells you everything. It doesn't mean he won't try to come crawling back when he fancies a booty call though.

SpringSprungToday · 05/03/2024 21:03

I mean to be fair I'm not really after anything more than a good time, does that make any difference?

And could he not be thinking the same? That if I was interested that I'd text him again? Or am I way overthinking all this?

OP posts:
Moonlightandroses44 · 05/03/2024 21:05

SpringSprungToday · 05/03/2024 21:03

I mean to be fair I'm not really after anything more than a good time, does that make any difference?

And could he not be thinking the same? That if I was interested that I'd text him again? Or am I way overthinking all this?

Do you really want to be chasing a man for sex? Assuming that’s what you mean.

and no men don’t think like that generally speaking. If they like you, or want to see you, they text.

heartbroken40 · 06/03/2024 05:10

@SpringSprungToday honestly it's even worse if it's just for fun. Men have a low bar for sex so maybe he's simply not into you. Do not message him please

Lighteningstrikes · 06/03/2024 09:16

No never chase.
He’s gone cold for a reason.

SamW98 · 06/03/2024 09:28

If you’re just after casual sex there’s enough men out there who will chase you without you chasing this one.

Epidote · 06/03/2024 09:37

I wouldn't send a text not because I worry what he can think of me, because of what I think of him and is that he is not interested.

determinedtomakethiswork · 06/03/2024 09:43

Get a grip, OP. Don't go chasing a man who is not interested in you for sex.

Copperoliverbear · 06/03/2024 22:42

If you had to chase this early on not worth it. Run for the hills x

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