I think i need some advise - im lost at the minute
Background:
I have been with my partner over 2 years and he is a nice guy. He lives in his house and i live in mine. He has 2 kids from previous relationship and he has full custody at the minute.
Stressed of dealing with 2 kids all the time and now we have found out that im pregnant. Also dealing with Courts and custody with previous partner.
He used to care and show affection, but he claims now due to stress he cant be there for me emotionally, but to be honest its emotionally, physically or virtually - barely texts anymore - yet says still wants to be there for me and baby in relationship.
So this leaves me living alone, pregnant, and in a relationship with a man who cant give me any love, cuddles, any affection whatsoever - and his reasoning is he is coping with alot. I am there for him anytime he needs me, but its breaking me that i dont have any love in my life, i am so affectionate and loving, and have no one to hug or love me. - iv tried to talk to him and he seems to turn it back on me. admits its crap for me but its how it is right now.
As much as i want to scream and cry, its not doing me or baby or anyone any good, so i am getting on with everything alone. But its so hard being in someones company you love and you just wanna be close to them and they are rejecting you.
I adore him, i adore the kids, and were bringing a wee one into the world soon, so i dont know what to do?
Talk to him, add to his stress levels and walk away / distance myself - or keep going and keep feeling like this and hopefully things might get better?
I understand he is stressed and dealing with alot, but where does that leave us? im not causing the stress, but im paying for it.
Sorry Rant Over :)