Please help. DH of 14yrs is just being horrid these days blaming me for enslaving him. This is the same man that has gone to Vegas, going to Prague next month on a stag and See's friends occasionally. I literally stay home all the time. He moans that I am a fat boring c&+t, that I've let myself go. I am struggling with RA and 3mths ago I think I herniated my cervical disc. To this day, I've lost strength in my wrist and my fingers have gone completely numb. I am waiting for the MRI results. We have a physically disabled son where he claims that it is too much to look after 2 disabled people and must've been punished for something he done in a previous life.
I have asked him to help me a little more with cooking, cleaning etc where he tells me to stop telling him rather than asking him. I always have a lovely clean house especially due DS only being able to crawl and work 12hr shifts a couple of times a week with a 5hr commute on top. I'm broken.
Earlier on the motorway today I didn't get into an inside lane briefly as my neck is killing and restricted at the moment to perform quick over-the-shoulder checks/blindspots. I told him that at the moment I didn't like driving and felt scared to do it. In a fit of anger, he thumped the dash 3 times really hard and grabbed the wheel shaking it side to side asking if that made me feel scared (with the kids in the back). He refuses to leave the house claiming it's his as he put all the money into it (joint mortgage). I have nowhere or no money to go with 3 children & 2 dogs