I have 2 sons one from previous who is 16 and a 2 year old from current relationship. Since we had our son my partner has completely changed! I suffered with PND which I know is a lot of pressure but he wasn’t supportive in the slightest, he says I’ve never apologised to him for what he had to deal with and if we argue he calls me a manic depressive. My eldest is currently staying at my mums which isn’t out of the ordinary as they helped bring him up but I’ve been heartbroken and down about this and my partner just says I’m a manic depressive.
if we argue he tells me I am incapable of looking after our son, I can’t cope, I’d never manage without him, I’m not right in the head. He tells me to go get a job, then when I was offered a job he told me not to take it because it was too many hours. He says this every time we fall out and that I should be contributing as he pays everything and gets no appreciation! when I say I could’ve worked but he said not to he tells me he told me to take the job when I know he didn’t say that.
He’s been away for a few days and I’m not gonna lie it’s been bliss, everyone has been chilled including the dog 😂 he’s returned home and basically said our sons behaviour is always worse when he’s not been here, he says what exactly have I done with him over the past few days apart from take him to the park and play gym he basically makes me feel useless. My hair has got major thin which I think is stress related and he just says all I do is sit at home worrying about my hair falling out. He walks about the house with an air of arrogance about him. I’m so confused because when we met he was lovely and so nice.