Boyfriend lives at my flat that I own. He earns substantially less than I do, so I said, don’t pay me rent, just put the same amount you were paying on last place into a savings and use it to pay for nice holidays that we go on (I’d pay my share). Been living together 4 years. He still doesn’t put the money in to the savings account every month, there’s never as much as there should be in there when I ask, does it sporadically. I confronted him and he got angry and said I was controlling and prying into his finances. Now I’m worried I am. Or am I being gaslit and taken for a fool?!