Me and my partner have been together for 10 years. We have a 3 year old together. A couple weeks ago he went out to a hockey game with work friends. I was also in the area with my aunt and we were supposed to meet up and relieve the grandma the babysitter around 12. After the game he called and said he was going to the Irish pub. My aunt said I should join but I wanted him to have his time because he doesn't get out much. I couldn't get a hold of him for a hour and a bit and finally met up with him and we went home. He was super depressed the next two days and just wanted to sleep. Well, turns out that he bought a bottle of vodka at the hockey game for himself and they were drinking beers. His friends kept begging him to come to the strip club and he said no but then caved in. One of the friends had drugs ❄️ that he hasn't used in many Many years. They drank bottles at the club but then he got private dances. Multiple dances totaling $900. It's a higher end strip joint but one of the dances would have been 30 minutes. It just kills me. He's been crying going to therepy telling me he loves me and just wanting to hold me. I have been non stop crying. I'm self conscious of myself and I feel like he just killed me. Why spend that when I was waiting for you? Why drink and do the other stuff. All I can see in my head constantly is a girl all over him for long periods.
We have a kid and had a good relationship. I was honestly so shocked I wouldn't have guessed. I feel so gross and unwanted.