Hello everyone. My 20 yr old dd and her 22 yr old bf found out 4 months ago that they are expecting. It wasn’t planned but we are supporting them in their decision to keep it.
Maybe I’m overthinking this, and I know it’s down to him to ensure his mother is involved, but I’m worried she is going to be feeling left out at this stage.
They spend all of their free time here as our house has more room and less people, I am arranging for them to move into a house i own from before I got married, and I have bought a lot of the baby things (so they can save).
He said his mum is excited but I feel (as the mum of the mum to be) that I am the one dd turns to for everything.
would it be weird for my husband and I to invite his parents round for a drink or dinner (I’ve never met them) so that we can get to know them as the fellow grandparents . Or should I just leave it up to the bf?
thanks