DH (49) just seems to be really short tempered and unhappy. He's really unhappy in his job due to a toxic culture (but can't move out of it). He always seems really tired and most recently is in a lot of muscular pain (he's just started exercising again-joined a running club etc). Have talked to him so much about everything that seems to be an issue and made lots of suggestions to try and help and support, but he won't seem to act on anything to help. I just notice unhappiness and certain differences in him, like when we eat a meal together, all he wants to do is eat and clear up as fast as he can, even if I'm still eating. Other times, he seems glued to his phone, and when I try and talk to him, say after a 12 hour day in work, he just ignores me, so I end up waking away, and he doesn't seem bothered. There's other examples where he'll puzzle over why a room that he uses in the house is so dirty and come up with random reasons for it being the way it is, yet it hasn't been cleaned for months on end, but he won't acknowledge that that is the problem. He just got really angry because my phone vibrated twice by the side of the bed. Had a full on cold the other week and just noticed he wasnt as thoughtful as normal. Random examples i know, but it just all seems a bit different at the moment. I am pregnant with our first child, so I thought he would be happier than he seems - am I being oversensitive?