Selling family home?

[Ptmum1553]

Did your relationship with your ex improve after the sale of the family home?
ex moved out of family home last year after I ended the relationship mainly as I couldn’t deal with how he spoke to me and made me feel. We have three children and because I have care of them most of the time; I still live in the family home. But I am constantly worried about his behaviour whenever he visits (most days, for one thing or another), he can’t control his emotions when he comes to pick up or drop off the children and continually makes remarks or is just generally rude. I am in a new relationship and he hates that I have him to visit, even though as I have the children most of the time, it’s not practical not to see him at the house.
I am still living in the family home because of financial reasons, and this was agreed with ex, however I’m starting to feel that our relationship may improve if I don’t live here anymore, even if it would leave me in financial difficulty or having to buy/rent with my new partner even though it is a little too soon.
did your relationship improve on selling the house, or did your ex just find something else to hate you for?

I think focusing on your childrens wellbeing needs to be priority OP.
That’s included having rules.
If your Ex is rude during vists to your home , exchanges need to take place elsewhere. He needs to understand passive aggressive behaviour is not acceptable.

You have jumped very quickly into a new relationship. Is it rebound? Discussing cohabitation with a man you don’t know well when you aren’t financially independent seems like jumping from frying pan into the fire . It’s very confusing for your children.

My advice is stay put for now , put the breaks on the new boyfriend relationship and focus on your self , children and improving your financial independence.
When you’ve got some money etc behind you see what you can afford independently if you still want to move