Hello!
I moved into my boyfriends a couple of years ago. And when I moved in I offered to pay the bills and he pay his mortgage. So we go half's. Anyway he said absolutely not, he wants to pay and I get food shops.
So it's been that way since. Anyway we've had a baby (we was together 3 years prior to this but didn't live together) since having baby, I've just asked him to be a little more tidier, like tidying up after himself, just saves me a extra job, but he takes such offence to it, two days ago - he left a pan with some floating eggs in it - so all I did was txt a picture of it and said 'ewww thanks' and he went on well if you want me to clean up then you need to pay the bills and I pay the mortgage, I explained I am on maternity pay and I can (I've always offered money anyway before mat leave) when I go back to work! Then he just kept escalating it, then went on to say he will look for somewhere else for me to live and told me to go stay at my mums! And told me to get out of his house! It's really hurtful as I gave up my home to live together and it's all he throws in my face.
Anyway he's gone back since and told me he doesn't want our family to break up etc, but it's just so weird now. He said the other week he wants to trade my car (which is mine) for a deposit for a nicer car, he booked Dubai for us too which I also offered money for and he refused but that's since been thrown in my face too. It makes me not want to use my car for a deposit as I feel if he's going to be like this then it's my only security!
Also since me saying about the bowl of eggs and I have before mentioned his lunch boxes with chicken in that he leaves around, all I asked for is for him just to throw away! But he said why is it so hard for me to pick it up and put in the bin! Which I do - but I don't think is should have to always pick up after him, I'm
So shattered from baby waking all night but he seems to think I do nothing, I do all the housework and washing, I don't know- I just want to ask am I in the wrong here?
Thanks x