Repeatedly dreaming about my colleague

[IslaSkywalker]

This worries me.

I very often dream about this man. I came home from work today very tired, so I went to bed for four hours and I dreamed about him. Worse still I wanted to get back into the dream.

I feel embarrassed and foolish. Is there a way to control dreams?

No :). This is your subconsious speaking.
Are you married? Single?

He is also probably dreaming about you too

I'm single, he's married with two small children. Which is why it's ridiculous. It really bothers me.

Ok. Then of course it’s advisable to stay away. Do you feel attracted to him in real life? Of not then it’s easy to ignore and these dreams will gradually stop.

May I ask the logic in this? I asking bcs I had a dream a while ago about a man which like OP felt good. I was married back them, him single. So nothing happened. I am now single though. No idea about him amd whether he is still single but sth is itching me to find out.

You’re probably attracted to him but for god’s sake leave him well alone.

I am but not in a way where I think about him outside work or fantasise or daydream or anything.

There's nothing to leave alone as I would never attempt anything in the first place.

He's been extremely supportive of me and my career and is a great colleague to have onside.

Just tread carefully and good to know you wouldn’t attempt anything.