Not talking serious illness but things like bad enough colds and other viruses.
i don’t live with mine OH but he refuses to be near me when I have a cold type virus because he doesn’t want to catch it. He won’t come in my house and doesn’t want me in his.
He works in a minor injuries unit where there are loads of people coming in all day with the same kind of viruses I currently have.
I work in a primary school and have caught a stupid amount of bugs since the autumn. I don’t go out of my way to avoid them. It’s just life.
whilst I understand, in theory, him wanting to avoid the bugs I feel pissed off , one that I haven’t got anyone to care for me, just a bit and two that he only wants to see me if I am well.
we have been together 5 years and he never used to be like this.
Thinking on it I think changed during covid times when his work meant he wasn’t allowed to be in known contact with anyone with covid.