Haven't heard from her in 5 weeks. Will she get in touch?

[Notoverher]

I'm a guy and had a disagreement with the girl I was seeing, it was a situationship and had only been a couple of months. Anyway I literally haven't heard from her in 5 weeks. I can't stop thinking about her and am absolutely gutted over it. I should be over this by now but I'm really not.
What are the chances of her getting in touch?
I stupidly deleted her number as I was hurt and now can't get in touch with her. I haven't blocked her so she could still get in touch if she wanted.

Maybe she deleted your number too

@Mybestusername yes that's what I'm worried about or that she may have blocked me..I deleted the chat on Whatsapp so I don't know. It was just a bit of a tiff, I didn't think she would just not contact me again

Sorry but I definitely don't think she's getting in touch. You could try via social media but I'd probably chalk this one up to experience and move along.

Nah, that ship has sailed................

You deleted her number, why wouldn't she do the same thing? Both of you may be better off without the other I suspect

5 weeks? Doubt it.

Wonder what her side of this is?
But you threw a strop and deleted her number? Expected her to crawl back? Glad for her she didn’t. This all sounds far too much like hard work. If not actually toxic.

Have you looked into recovering deleted chats? I think there may be a way.

I didn't think she would just not contact me again

Why would she do that? You deleted her number? Sauce for the goose and all that.

Sounds like she dodged a bullet if you have this attitude.
Maybe next time, put the ego aside.

If you ever called her you could get her number from your calls list and/or phone bill

Sorry if this seems harsh but it really serves you right. Good for her not pandering to you.
Maybe try not to have an adolescent strop with your next girlfriend?

Surely most people are contactable on some form on social media?

But back to the point. ..... 5 weeks. Nope she isn't running back to you OP. Perhaps what you call a little disagreement was a bit more than that. Well you deleted her number for a start.

If it was a situationship, someone didn't want to be a GF/BF, and I'm guessing that was her? It takes less to end a 'thing' than a relationship, an argument could be enough, because there are less ties and less of a connection.

You don't even know where she lives or any way to contact her? Sounds very odd.

This isn't "Am I the ex" but if it were...

What's a situationship, when it's at home?

Sometimes there is no happy ending. It is just a case of a lifetime of relentless pacing of the planet with a heavy heart just thinking...."What if?"

Its where all the sad songs come from.

5 weeks? She's gone, move on.

I think she is not going to get back in touch Im afraid. just let it go for now .5 weeks is a long time and its probably for the best now

Do you have her address? A heartfelt letter might win her back.

Failing that as others have said, SM?

Valentines card would have been worth a try! I don't fancy your chances though, and hope you've learned something from this....

I don’t get why everyone is being so prickly, but it’s probably because you’re a guy. Unfortunately, you are unlikely to get sympathy from women on here; the vast majority do not like men and certainly don’t like them on here.

I would do as suggested above if possible - recover deleted messages or try to find her on SM, even if it’s just so you can draw a line under it.

I think you can unblock and find the number in your deleted chats. Or unblock and try searching the name. 🤞🏼

I think it's what we old fogies used to call a 'casual relationship'.

Are you serious? You're so far in the past you'd be as well be wearing bell bottoms. Move on, my friend.