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Trusting a mum friend

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ivise · 21/02/2024 19:08

Long story short , as some of u know last week was a school holidays,so week before I met up with my cousin for our usual play date , I was telling her that would be nice to meet up with kids on half term and do something whatever, she was like yes but didn't say much , yet again the week passed by ,didn't hear from her , on Monday I invited her to meet up after school at mine ,she agreed , she came and was like oh sorry didn't see u all week , daughter had caught head lice from school ,bare in mind I saw the kid on Friday and she was off from that day so I kind of caught her on a lie , but only realised that later on , my point is that I feel like she really doesn't want our friendship, just going for sake of kids or I don't know , because if it was me I would love to do more activities together but seems like she always ignores when it comes to doing smth or her inviting us to her house , I feel like I am almost bothering her and she is doing this to tick the box , there is so much more that have happened, I am starting to think that I should start believing the energy she gives me because It's only her I feel like that about

How would u deal with family friend that deep down u know smth is not right and even after telling her what bothers me it's still the same

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sparebooks · 21/02/2024 19:26

How would I deal with it? Match her energy probably. Don't bother arranging anything with her- let her come to you. She probably will, given some time- she's just used to you doing all the running.

Mary46 · 21/02/2024 20:14

I think suit yourself going forward.. I used to meet my cousin then she was busy busy. I just let it go then as u kinda wondering do they want meet at all!!

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