Me and DH have been together for almost 13 years and married for almost 5 and we have a 2 year old DS.
At the moment, I feel like DH is so distant. He is very critical of me and it’s as if I just annoy him. He’s always really happy and jokey with DS but then different when it’s just the two of us. This morning he was leaving for work and just popped his head round to say bye, wasn’t going to come and give me a kiss and then I said love you lots and he didn’t respond.
We had a lovely valentines night last week when DS had gone to bed and that rekindled a spark but then 3 days later, he’s gone quiet again. We don’t do much just the two of us but we have got some concerts lined up for the Summer. He recently sent a link to a show in London and said it could be a fun date night for us and he’s mentioned about us sorting out a holiday to look forward to so he is suggesting things. I just don’t know if he feels like we don’t spend enough time together as a couple anymore or he’s just bored of me.
He’s not the best about talking things through (gets that from his dad) and will go quiet instead so it’s difficult to sit down and ask what’s wrong. It just feels a bit like we can’t go a day without being weird with each other at the moment.
Not really sure if there is any advice out there, just needed to get it off my chest but any words of wisdom would be appreciated ❤️