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What do you think this could be?

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Googoodoll87 · 20/02/2024 19:34

Hello. Just wondering what people think this could be? Scam or just a random message?

Received on Facebook last week but was unsent before I could read it. Initially it wouldn't let me reply or see profile but later I could and I replied with '?' but has never been read.

My partner of 12 years left 5 weeks ago and didn't give any reason other than things not being 'right' so I've been wondering if he's been seeing someone else and maybe someone trying to tell me.

Maybe it's a coincidence but I've never had a message like this on Facebook before. There is absolutely nothing on the profile.

What do you think this could be?
OP posts:
Pinkie89 · 20/02/2024 19:37

I think you’re right, someone is trying to tell you something. I’m guessing that you haven’t cheated and I'd therefore assume you’re husband had, especially as he left 5 weeks ago. Sorry 😔

Googoodoll87 · 24/02/2024 19:14

Hey, thanks for replying. I think this too but my sister thinks it's a coincidence. Just interested to see what others thought x

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Pinkbonbon · 24/02/2024 20:13

Weird name...

Unless he's telling a new woman that he caught you cheating and that's why he left. Or it's him trying to make out you were the cheat and he's caught you out.

Definately possible the current woman found out his lie and thought to message you though. Then chickened out.

Pinkbonbon · 24/02/2024 20:19

Could also be him just attention seeking too.

Wanting you to be thinking about him and pinning after him, to feed his ego. Hense he does things to try to stay relevant.

twingiraffes · 24/02/2024 20:21

Maybe it's your ex. Did he ever show any signs of trust issues, or a dislike of you going out with friends? He may have left because he's convinced you are having an affair, or that someone's told him you are.

Pointofreference · 24/02/2024 20:30

If someone wants you to know something I'd think they'd send you more than this because it tells you nothing.
I'd try and forget it. Maybe they were going to message you further and got stopped?
If they want you to know something they will surely msg again unless it's someone just playing games, trying to stir things.
Or could be a total coincidence. There's a lot of pranking and scamming going on. It's guaranteed that someone sending loads of these out on Facebook is going to reach someone who is cheating or being cheated on after all.

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