So i got dumped at Christmas after a relatively short relationship. Relationship was good as far as i was aware, no arguments, had met each others families etc. Dumping came very much out of the blue and is partly due to health concerns that ex has. Anyway, I went NC after a couple of weeks because i needed some space.
Today I had to contact her to ask for something back (a particular piece of uni work that I had completed). She had the original work, there was a lot of sentiment attached to it for various reasons so I really wanted it. I kept the message brief and asked her to post it into my house if she was passing, she lives locally so would be passing at times.
She replied saying she would drop it in later this afternoon as she would be in town. We then messaged a couple of times about the weather. Literally just that. The weather. The exchange has actually really upset me. How do you go from sharing your life with someone, being involved with each others families, sleeping together and planning a future together to, within a few weeks, talking about it being sunny. I'm so hurt at how easy she seems to have found it to just move on and forget everything we had.