I’ll try and keep this short just want some other opinions please .
Have been married almost 20 years, we have 3 kids between 6 and 16. My other half has always gone out a lot . His “ nights out” usually start from 3 o’clock in the afternoon until the early hours of the next morning . He will then stay in bed all day literally all day getting up after the kids have gone to bed . He will then say to me do I want to watch a film ect usually by this time I’m too annoyed as would have been doing everything by myself all day which causes an argument . It’s then not unusual for him to spend Monday off work and in bed still unwell from his night out . This usually happens at least once every 4/5 weeks .
just to add if I ever try and go out always an issue.
is this ok ?
he just says I’m jealous and have no friends . I say if we both acted as he does who would have the kids ??? We don’t have people who can babysit either which makes it hard .
thank you for reading