My mum caught him. He says it's over, but he's still in touch with her (wtf). My mum's not really sure what's next. They're in their 60s, we're (me and my brother) in our 30s. Has anyone been through this? I'm supporting my mum but haven't spoken to my dad yet. I can't see how this hasn't damaged our relationship irreparably, regardless of what happens between him and my mum. I don't know what to do. He's not a lorathio, he's a normal older man who's never done anything like this before. She's spent the best years of her life raising his kids and helping care for his elderly parents. I'm so angry. And so upset.
What should I know about this 'script' everyone talks about?