Drunk words

[Namechangetoponder]

For 10+ years I did everything, cooking, cleaning, childcare etc. Been sick the last few years so needed dh help to step up, he became super stressed and became physically unwell too.

He was a 2+ bottles of wine on a fri/sat person before he was ill, now very rarely drinks
Tonight he's had a few beers and shouted at me how I do fuck all. Apparently he knew I'd chuck the last 10 years at him but it's all bullshit.

This isn't the first time. You ask anyone and they will tell you he absolutely adores me, but apparently it's not half as much as he now hates me.

I have M.S, I CANNOT do anymore atm and I do understand why he feels under pressure but...

See what he says when the alcohol wears off. Hopefully he will feel sorry.

I'd ask him what his outburst was about and get to the bottom of how he's feeling. When someone gets ill it really takes a toll on both people, and the life changes can be hard to deal with. Are you in any position to get some help in? A cleaner once a week? See if there's some carer support groups your husband could attend. Also perhaps attend a MS support group yourself if you feel it would help. Hope things get easier.