I am involved in a long distance relationship. When we first met he said he'd come and visit every weekend. This soon changed to every fortnight. Our main form of communication is msn which is crap. He does phone now and again but this is normally when he's at work so 2 minutes in he has to "rush off" as he has a customer.
I'm sick of the whole thing, we never see each other, we're never together at important times (bank holidays, easter, christmas, valantines day etc etc) and he doesnt seem to understand that the whole point of being in a relationship is to have someone there for you.
I spend all week on my own, every other weekend on my own, public holidays on my own...its just stupid.
The other day I was upset, he kept nagging me on msn asking what was matter so I told him I was feeling depressed so he send a "sad" face and wrote hugs and then added a smilie I couldn't help myself and snapped and wrote back "wow great, now I feel a million times better". He replied "What else do you want me to do?" as if I expect too much of him.
Everytime I've tried to break it off he's talked me around but what's the point? I want to be with someone I can see on a weekend, spend a few hours with when the kids have gone to bed during the week...someone to go for a drive with on a bank holiday...am I really expecting too much of a relationship?