Hi, so now my marriage is over, still living in the same house, we have 2 children. He cannot even look at me, I irritate him. He is adamant if I go council they will just give me and the kids a home! he's been edging towards this a while I have felt the disconnect since he started a new job working a way.( originally he told me he would be away 1 or 2 nights a month it's ended up him being away 6 nights a week) that lie was hurtful and I have suspected something since and by the way he is glued to his phone and emotionally disconnected to me and has no respect for me)He hates coming home to me and dreads it. His words. I feel he has convinced himself that I am a horrible person. He is turning it all on me like its my fault. Very cold towards me. I think he has met someone else, when I approach the subject (cheating) he is unusually calm and won't look at me. I have had the instinctive feeling for months and he has been looking for an excuse to end. He is my children's father and I won't slate him but this is my situation. I'm so hurt by all this. Its 💯 over. Heeelp! The day it ended I had just been diagnosed with depression, diabetes and high blood pressure. I was upset, he can't even comfort me in my darkest moment. I just don't know what to do I'm in limbo. We can't continue living in the same house it's so tense and awkward and I cannot afford anywhere.
Advice, opinions, help please.