Im really unhappy in my relationship. Ive been with dp 14 years and we have grown apart so much. We spend more time ignoring each other than talking. He puts me down, makes me feel stupid and likes to belittle me. when i call him out 'it's all in my head'. he bores
me so much. if he finds interest in a topic, then thats it, for days on end thats all
he will talk about, then gets annoyed with me for not finding it as interesting as him then will put me down for it. i have decided to leave him, but he has a big special birthday coming up in 6 weeks. in my situation, would you stick it out until after his birthday or just leave? tia