I’ve been chatting to a very keen guy for a few weeks. He kept following up with his messages and being persistent - but in a nice way. I was kinda giving up on meeting someone but I went on a date with him as he seemed so nice. And wow it was an amazing first date. We just clicked. It was warm and natural. And the messages and voice notes have been great since then. He said he can’t wait to see me again. I feel the same. But now I’m second guessing - why is this guy so persistent and keen? I’ve been dating for a year and all the guys have been vague and disinterested- and probably chatting to lots of other women! Why does this guy like me? Is he a player? I can’t seem to enjoy dating anymore and I’m riddled with anxiety and on my guard for a player, abuser or married man.