Hi,
I need a break from my relationship but have no idea how to go about this as we live together and don’t have a spare room, has anyone else been in this position before and how did you navigate it?
I believe oh is depressed and needs to go work on himself.we recently got engaged after 8 years however he turned mean straight after and seemed miserable about it, we had an appointment to view a wedding venue and he was to meet me there but then said he wasn’t coming. I confronted him about it and said I didn’t believe he wanted to get married and he hesitated and then said yes he is stressed about it. then the next day tried to act normal and say we will get married let’s go view venue again on Tuesday,I said no.
This is not the first time this has happened,every milestone in the relationship I’ve had to drag him along to and he’s been hesitant about everything, no milestone was a happy occasion. We are not getting married anymore and I don’t want this relationship the way it is. He blames his anxiety.
Any advise appreciated