Husband choosing porn over me

[WiseLimePoster]

So we have been together 14 years married 8, both in out 30s. Best mates and always flirty BUT!! Im not satisfied with the amount of sex, ones every 7-9 days just doesn’t cut it! I adore him and love feeling close, I asked him and he said it must be his libido dropping, I then discovered he’s been watching porn 2 times a week whilst im
home! He promised he wouldn’t do it again and Iv now seen he’s looking at adult actresses on Facebook (right before we got it on last time)
he knows im Always up for it and happy to try anything, why would he do this! Hes making me mentally sick with constantly thinking he’s doing it, and i feel horrendous about myself now. (Im not ugly if i do say so myself) we both go to the gym together, and have a pretty easy life, is this something you’d leave over, what if it never stops! I can’t live with worrying 24/7 that im 2nd best.
I need advise

Maybe he feels you are putting him under too much pressure and have insulted his ego a bit

I that talking about leaving him at this stage seems a bit strong

Looking at porn isn't anything to do with you really. A quick wank is different to sex with a partner, he'll have been watching porn long before you met. Try not to make it about your insecurities

This.

I hate porn but you need to separate wanking and sex. Too completely different things.

*two, even…!